Stop Fighting, Start Thriving: Develop a relationship with love, respect, and joy.
At Turning Point Therapy, we welcome and have experience with:
Are you feeling stuck and disconnected? Couples counselling provides a supportive space to address these challenges and restore your bond. If you’re searching for relationship counselling in Vancouver or virtually across BC, Turning Point Therapy is here to guide you back to connection and joy.
Our counsellors provide clear, compassionate, and experienced guidance to help you build a loving, joyful, and deeply connected partnership.
At Turning Point Therapy, we draw from several well-researched, evidence-based approaches to support couples through a wide range of challenges. We continue to stay current with the latest relationship research and best practices. Our training includes:
These approaches help us understand your relationship patterns with depth and clarity, while offering practical tools to rebuild trust, intimacy, and connection.
We offer skilled support in the areas where couples most often feel stuck, including:
Our goal is to help both partners feel seen, supported, and empowered as you find new pathways forward together.
Every relationship has its challenges. These are the areas we most commonly help couples navigate so they can rebuild connection and move forward together.
Communication is the main issue we see partners struggle with. Working on communication involves many aspects. Here are some of the main ones.
We believe these are the two most important experiences for healthy relationships. How these interact with each other and play out in the relationship is often a focus for therapy. These experiences are learned in childhood and carried into our adult relationships.
Healthy boundaries and self-esteem allow us to be connected to our partner and ourselves with appropriate protection and hold each other with respect.
Major betrayals such as infidelity rock the foundation of a relationship. It is a traumatic breach of trust and often leaves partners feeling:
Making any decision about the relationship at this time is hard, you are in crisis, let the dust settle if you can. Our therapists are here to help you navigate through this difficult time.
In a love-obsessed relationship, individuality and separation are seen as threats. Instead of embracing differences and navigating conflict, partners strive to become one person.
Here are some signs:
A persistent love-obsessed dynamic can lead to resentment, dissatisfaction, and difficulty expressing needs.
We will work with you to have a connection that can process conflict, become at ease with you and your partner’s space and differences, and communicate your needs in the relationship.
The end of a relationship is painful. The decision to end a relationship can be confusing and a roller coaster of back and forth.
Typical struggles folks can have when relationships end:
How to move on and trust again.
If you are experiencing any of these struggles counselling can provide a space to make sense of your experience and recover.
This is a common fear, especially if your relationship is full of blame. We don’t blame either partner for your troubles but often address the strategies and behaviour you are using to meet your needs, which may be harming your relationship. It is our experience that each partner has learnt ways to get their needs met (often in their family of origin) that do the opposite and create distance, resentment and even fear in the relationship. We will be candid about what we see happening between you so that you can hear it and feel supported to do something different.
Yes! We have worked with many couples to recover from infidelity. Couples counselling can be a place to decide whether you wish to work on the relationship, and we recommend that you give yourself time before making the decision. When infidelity is first revealed, the relationship is thrown into crisis, and the dust needs to settle. The decision to stay or leave is personal, and there is no right decision. What is true is that it is possible to recover.
Three main areas of exploration happen in relationship counselling. Firstly, we will be identifying the dynamics you are stuck in and this involves exploring the details of what happens between you. We may keep returning to this as we gain awareness of the reactions and behaviours that create difficulties. We will explore some things you have learned in your family of origin particularly around boundaries and self-esteem. Thirdly, because we recognise that we are not taught effective relationship skills we will practice and learn skills to improve communication, decision making and repair.
It can be hard when you want to work on your relationship, and your partner doesn’t think you need help. We can start with you. There is a lot of work an individual can do to improve their part in the relationship and we will help you communicate to encourage your partner to attend.
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Whether you’re facing ongoing conflict, a lack of intimacy, or major life transitions, relationship counselling can help you rediscover connection and joy. At Turning Point Therapy, we’ll walk alongside you, offering tools and strategies to strengthen your partnership.
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